姐姐结婚那天,死去的姥爷来了

小哥我今天28岁，本来是一个无神论者，哪怕现在也还是比较天真的认为人一生的命运掌握在自己的手中，最近闲着无聊潜伏了一段日子，看了好多人在讲述自己的故事，仔细回想一下，这么多年在自己身边也发生过很多不能理解的事情，今天也和大家说一下。

小哥一家五口人，上边2个姐姐，一个大我9岁，一个大我11岁，父亲是工人，母亲务农，小哥7岁的时候全家跟着父亲离开来到了一个有泰山的城市，从此成了城里人。
我觉的大家对我的童年不会有太多的兴趣，咱就直接跳到大姐结婚的时候。
大约是94年，大姐结婚的时候没有举国同庆，却真的喜气洋洋，我妈是老大，我还有5个姨一个舅舅（其实我姥娘曾经说过我的舅舅和姨加起来应该是12个——自然灾害惹的祸），结婚的时候都从老家赶了过来，因为我大姐是整个家族第一个结婚的孩子。
在婚礼的第二天下午，基本上结婚阶段可以告一段落了，大人忙的累，小哥好吃好喝玩的也累，下午3点多，我坐在小板凳上趴在沙发扶手上听大人说话，不知不觉的就像进入了梦境，可是非常奇怪的是我能隐隐约约的感觉到一个人影轻轻的从我眼前走过，这个人黑乎乎的，动作很轻，也很慢，他不和任何人讲话，屋里没有一点声音，一会又从我眼前出去了（我坐在门口），我猛然间醒了，看见屋里很多人在说话，小哥当时郁闷的不轻，为什么我睡觉的时候能看到人走过去？可是当了吃饭的时候，这只是一个开始。

大约晚上6点多的时候，所有的亲戚都围坐在我家的小客厅里，吃完今天的饭明天就回老家了。
吃饭的时候大家心情都不错，特别是70多岁的姥娘，非常开心。
可是二姨突然表情很严肃，有人问二姨怎么了，他也不回答，她慢慢的举起了自己的右手很生气的指着姥娘，一句话不说，喘着很粗的气，就像有什么深仇大很一样，慢慢的二姨的呼吸越来越沉重，似乎有话说不出来了，最后总算说出了一个字：你！。
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有人问怎么了，有人把她的手往下拽，可是拽不动，大家吓坏了，我的眼泪也在眼眶里打转，二姨在说了几个“你”之后很艰难的说出了一句话：外甥出嫁，你不和我说一声！所有的人都愣住了，姥爷去世已经很多年了。

我只记得当时自己是眼泪哗哗的流，可是一点声音都没有。
在沉默了不知道多长时间后三姨先开口了：爹啊，你先别生气，咱不是想回去后再和你说说吗，大闺女出嫁这么忙，没叠着（顾着）和你说。
大家似乎明白了什么事，都不敢说话，只有三姨大着胆子自己说，二姨什么话也不说，还是那样举着手深仇大恨的喘气，母亲起身去了邻居家，三姨一边和二姨说这话，一边从上往下捋二姨的胸口给他顺着气，慢慢的二姨手放下来了，大家这才放松了一些，偶尔有人插上几句。
过了一段时间，有开门的声音，二姨突然很慌张的样子，呼吸急促略显焦急，是邻居领着一个人回来了，来人进屋笑嘻嘻的说道，大喜的日子都在干嘛呢?说着略带严肃的微笑着对我二姨说：老嫂子，孩子出嫁你高兴不？说着要去握手，这时二姨吓的直打哆嗦往后躲，三姨紧紧的抱着她，一边抱着她一边安慰，没事没事，别怕。
这个人是我姐姐结婚的主事，也是我们厂区资格最老的红事主事，就这样二姨躲在三姨怀里一个劲哆嗦，主事和二姨有一句每一句的说着话，气氛很尴尬，偶尔沉默无声。
10分钟样子，妈妈回来了，领着一个老太太，进门的时候二姨哆嗦的更厉害了，老太太进门之后一直没有表情，直勾勾的看着二姨，二姨抖得更厉害了，老太太坐下后漫不经心的说：孩子大喜的日子你捣什么乱，二姨没说话还是发抖，老太太又说：离得这么远没来过，怎么认的门？这时候二姨哆哆嗦嗦的说话了：大闺女（我妈）回家上坟的时候跟回来认得们。
老太太又说：看完了回去吧？二姨说：啊！这就回去！老太太起身来说：走，我送你回去，这时候的二姨没那么抖了，盯着看着我和二姐说：外甥送。
老太太稍微沉默叹了一口气，把我和二姐叫到一边说，不用怕一会和她下楼走到有马路的地方就回来，叮嘱说路上不管怎么样不要回头看。
我和二姐麻木的点着头，没记住老太太说的什么话。
老太太靠近二姨，一把抓住二姨得手说了几句话，二姨突然慢慢 的哭起来，过了一分钟，哭声越来越小，慢慢的在三姨怀里睡着了，老太太叮嘱大家二姨醒来之后谁也不要提这个事，大家都点了点头，照顾着把二姨扶上床。
老太太叫着我和二姐出了，我的脑子里还是害怕，很麻木，不知道和二姐怎么去的马路，怎么回的家。

回家后二姨睡着了，大家还是在聊天，只不过聊天的气氛有点异样。
第二天，我的5个姨一个舅舅带着我的姥娘回家了，此事也告一段落。
过了一段时间，邻居和那个老太太又来了我家，老太太念了好多咒、泼了好多水之后我家客厅坐北朝南的桌子上多了一个观音和一个香炉，后来在他们的聊天中我也知道了事情的来龙去脉。
家里兴师动众出门惊动了姥爷，姥爷知道路就自己过来看看发生什么事，一看这么大的事也没告诉自己就很生气，最后找到了体质最弱的二姨来发泄对老娘的不满，后来红事主事来了，他主持的婚礼很多，身上喜气很重，老爷不敢接近，也不敢随便发脾气，主事把姥爷先镇住，最后老太太来了想办法把他送走。
我觉的简单说来也很符合情理。
后来邻居问：为什么最后让2个外甥（我和二姐）送他，老太太的眼神明显有一丝异样，不易于人察觉，但是我看到了。
老太太闭上眼睛似乎略有叹息的说：想外甥了。

从那以后，家里一直没有什么异样，我一直记得老太太那一闪而过的失望眼神，所有的人都没有注意老太太最后的那句话，即便是2002年二姐去世的时候（以后会讲到二姐的去世）。
可是二姐离世多年以后，当我接连发生3起车祸的时候，家人似乎明白了什么。

Introduce:Little elder brother I today 28 years old, it is an atheist originally, even if now still also is more innocent admitting,the destiny of the lifetime that it is a person masters in his hand, at a loose end is dull recently conceal a paragraph of day, saw a lot of person be in the story that relates oneself, think back to carefully, so old the thing that also has produced to cannot understand more very much beside oneself, also say with everybody today.
Little elder brother a 5 buccal people, above 2 elder sisters, big I am 9 years old, big I am 11 years old, father is a worker, maternal soil, little elder brother is 7 years old when the city that the family follows father to leave a country to have a father-in-law, became oppidan from now on.
The everybody that I become aware won't have too much interest to my childhood, when we jumps to eldest sister marriage directly.
It is 94 years about, when eldest sister marries, celebrate together without the whole nation, in the home beaming really however, my Mom is the old, I still have 5 one's mother's sisters an uncle (actually my Lao woman once had said my uncle and aunt add up should be the disaster that 12 —— natural disaster causes) , when marrying, drove from native place come over, because my eldest sister is whole and familial the first conjugal child.
In wedding the following day afternoon, basically marry level can come to an end, adult is busy tired, little elder brother is delicious good drink those who play is tired also, much at 3 o'clock afternoon, I sit on platelet stool to bend over to listen to adult to talk on sofa armrest, imperceptible resembled entering dream, but very strange is I can be indistinct,feel a people gently had gone at the moment from me, this person is black, the movement is very small, very slow also, he does not speak with anybody, there is a bit sound in house, went out at the moment from me again a little while (I sit in the doorway) , I abruptly woke, see a lot of people in house are talking, little elder brother is depressed at that time not light, why can when I sleep, you see the person goes by? When but was become,having a meal, this just begins.
About much at 6 o'clock in the evening when, all kin surround the little sitting room that takes in my home in, eat today's meal to will return old home tomorrow.
When having a meal everybody the humor is good, especially Lao woman of many years old 70, very happy.
But 2 aunts are abrupt expression is very earnest, somebody asks 2 one's mother's sisters how, he also does not reply, she slowly the right hand that raised oneself is very angry pointing to Lao woman, a word does not say, breathing heavily very thick gas, resemble having what rancor big very same, slowly the breath of 2 aunts is heavier and heavier, it seems that the word said not to come out, spoke a word at long last finally: You! .
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Somebody asks how, somebody pulls her hand downward, but drag,do not move, everybody was psyched out, my15203